Turns on: Dominance, obedience, whispering in my ear, feeling your breath against the back of my neck, don’t ask/tell me.. show me, BDSM, honestly, dad mom bods. Turns off: T R O L L E R S. Bad vibes. When they ask/say “Do you wanna have sex?” instead of just going for it (iykyk). Being untrustworthy. Not trusting in me. Inappropriate timing! Not taking “No, thank you.” or “Not today.” for an answer the FIRST time. Ripped/too muscular bods..