Turns on: I LOVE THAT YOU TELL ME YOUR FETISHES AND I TRY TO PLEASE YOU, I LIKE TO TALK A LOT AND I LOVE THAT YOU ARE OPEN-MINDED. Turns off: I DON'T LIKE PEOPLE WHO DO NOT LET THEIR IMAGINATION FLOW.
Turns on: it excites me to treat me well, be polite but at the same time a little perverted when they talk to me. Turns off: it turns me off to be insulted, treated badly, made to feel uncomfortable or asked for things without any motivation.